The weather this past week has been amazingly wonderful! I cannot remember a February this lovely. It looks like Spring with all the daffodils, forsythia, flowering trees and the fact that all my tulips and irises are working very hard to push out of the ground. We have a problem with our animals enjoying nesting among the tulips and irises because they happen to be located in warm areas of the yard, particularly those against a sunny brick wall. Lee hired someone to help him place a small border fence around those plants in hopes to discourage Bella, a large yellow spanial mix, Flo, the beagle, and Tommy the white cat. So far it is not working. Bella has stayed away, but Flo the mischievous beagle may be found there at any sunny time, as well as the cat. They have both been scolded and handily removed in hopes they will remember. Oh well, maybe we will see a few blooms!
Lee is doing very well. He manages to stay busy as a consultant to our family and friends in areas of decisions regarding farming and farm equipment. He is also helping his niece handle his brother's estate. All of our children and grandchildren from time to time rely on his expertise in those decisions related to insurance matters. Those grandchildren who now have automobiles are reminded by him from time to time to have their cars serviced, inspected and tags renewed. It is not unusual for a grandchild to call him in regards to a problem. Whenever the parents intervene, I remind them that this is fine because it is good for Lee to continue to feel useful and necessary. I also remind Lee that these situations are a confirmation as to why he has been allowed to live and continue on with his life. He is so important to our family and has always been the rock that we depend on in times of important decisions that need to be made with care.
We are constantly reminded of our place in the time- measurement of life each time we hear news of another family member, friend or acquaintance with announcement of their demise. In spite of trying to avoid the obituary column, we sometimes find ourselves turning there first. Unfortunately, we seem to recognize those who were at one time a part of our lives. Yes, it is depressing, but in a way it reminds us that life is a gift and should be enjoyed each minute. Speaking of enjoyment, Lee is down at his grapevines and he is determined to do some trimming. It is good to see him able to once again do something he enjoys!
I leave you with a parting thought I read recently:
There are three stages of life: Youth, Middle, and You Look Good!
Looking Good..........................................More Later, Brenda
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