He's on the Move!

Lee has had a phenomenal week!  I can see his strength returning each day.  He is now able to move about freely throughout the house without the aid of a walker or a cane. He does, however, use the walker first thing in the morning to navigate from the bedroom to the den.

Today we both had dental appointments for cleaning, x-ray and general check-up. Lee had not been to the dentist in over a year and we were concerned about some obvious staining of his teeth.  We suspected that it was due to some of his medication and were afraid it might be permanent.  Good news is that it is due to the oral nystatin (swish) that he must use four times a day.  The hygienist was able to remove it all and he is now scheduled for cleanings every three months.

This afternoon Lee decided to go for a drive all by himself.  When he left around 4:30 p.m. he told me he was making some special deliveries to some of the neighbors and not to expect him back until after dark.  Wow! that was a surprise to me!  It was a good feeling to watch him leave with just the cane and to be able to drive away.  He was back around 6:00 and I have to confess that letting him go like that was akin to the first time one of my teen drivers left alone!  You see, we have been practically "glued at the hip" for the past year and I have assumed a more responsible role in our relationship.  It is good to finally see Lee developing more independence and releasing me.  At the same time, I am having to wean myself from my more "parental" role that was imposed upon me due to his illness.

Even though I am filled with joy with Lee's progress, it is with sadness that we both had to experience the loss of our good friend, Bill Canipe today.  Bill was anticipating the possibility of becoming a successful candidate for lungs @ Duke.  Unfortunately he was too ill by the time he got there and had to be hospitalized.  Please remember his wife Debbie and family in your prayers. Bill & Debbie were such great supporters for us during our entire time @ Durham.  We will miss him very much.

My prayer is that each of you will enjoy your family this Thanksgiving.  Cherish the time you have together and the memories you will be making.  We plan to do the same.

More Later.................................Brenda